fix: asset update race condition (#24384)

* fix: asset update race condition

* fix: asset update race condition

* single statement

* update sql

* missed one

* fix `none` handling

* fix: tests

* chore: simplify update all assets

* fix: updating lockable properties

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Co-authored-by: mertalev <101130780+mertalev@users.noreply.github.com>

server/test/medium/specs/services/metadata.service.spec.ts

@@ -95,6 +95,7 @@ describe(MetadataService.name, () => {
           dateTimeOriginal: new Date(expected.dateTimeOriginal),
           timeZone: expected.timeZone,
         }),
+        { lockedPropertiesBehavior: 'skip' },
       );
 
       expect(mocks.asset.update).toHaveBeenCalledWith(